The other day I was at a friend's house for her birthday get together. As a good friend that ' I is'....lol! My domestic prowess was in action to ensure everyone was attended to. There was this not so bad looking friend/ colleague of hers, who I could tell with my sixth sense was scoping me! As expected, I served him drinks and food like everyone else. So I decided to... you know sit close to him ( don't judge....I'm single) and he appears to be too. Anyway..back to my gist! The essence of sitting close was so a conversation could start..no? My gush...dude was dead mute....introductions had already taken place...like seriously I just did'nt get it, was he kinda intimidated by my finness? (Pun intended) even when I tried to make conversation what he felt necessary to ask was:' so what do you do? ( like really! the first thing to ask a girl you just met ) the talk was'nt working yo! I jejely took myself away from there before What everyone won...